Love in the Time of the Pandemic
I’ve read it many times, but I think it doesn’t hurt to put this message out here again. So here’s goes my story of love during the pandemic. I am
Tag: relationships
Toolbox – Journaling and Letters Without a Recipient
Managing your own emotions and unpacking them in a healthy way is easier said than done. When you are in the grip of emotions, making sense of it all can
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Toolbox – Put Yourself in Their Shoes
This has been by far the hardest exercise I have done, from an emotional perspective. It is much easier to look at things in black and white, to see people
Toolbox – Leniency
If there is one thing that I fiercely preach, it is this: leniency. To yourself and to others. It’s not easy and I have to remind myself of it often,
Being a Better Partner (pt. 3) – Your Digital Support Network
A lot of the help that I found in dealing with difficult aspects of poly, was in resources about non-monogamy. I heard the stories of all of these people who
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Being a better partner (pt. 2) – The Best Reward of Non-monogamy
Something I have though a lot about, especially after coming out of my own “dark ages” of poly was that the best thing I got out of poly was a
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Being a better partner (pt. 1) – The Root of All Our Poly Problems
I sincerely think that in order to thrive in polyamory, we must first take a good, hard look at the culture we were raised in and the fantasy world that
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Toolbox – A template for the User Manual
In case you are not familiar with the idea of the user manual, it is meant as a tool, firstly to help you get to know yourself and really consider
When you decide that my husband is more important
It happens more often that you would think. I am having a conversation with someone and we end up talking about polyamory as it is a subject that makes people curious
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If you want to start dating, just read this book
I was extremely delighted to discover that my two favorite podcast hosts had published a book on how to build your dating profile. Cunning Minx and Lusty Guy from the
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