If there is one thing that I fiercely preach, it is this: leniency. To yourself and to others. It’s not easy and I have to remind myself of it often, because I do forget it. We often know where we need to …
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A lot of the help that I found in dealing with difficult aspects of poly, was in resources about non-monogamy. I heard the stories of all of these people who were happy and fulfilled in their multiple relationships and I wanted to …
Something I have though a lot about, especially after coming out of my own “dark ages” of poly was that the best thing I got out of poly was a better me. Even if I decide, tomorrow, that I don’t want any …
I sincerely think that in order to thrive in polyamory, we must first take a good, hard look at the culture we were raised in and the fantasy world that made us who we are today. Ideas like finding “the one” and …
I have been on a short break from writing in my gratitude journal as I have been focusing on a new section of my blog that I hope will help quite a few people 😀 But I do not want to allow …
This post celebrates being special and making yourself special to other people. It is about appreciation and working at your connections. For the longest time I have kept thinking about this, especially in the context of polyamory. What makes us special to …
I have not been keeping up with this idea of a gratitude journal, but I am not discouraged. Often picking up a new or abandoned habit can take time and patience. And many times you just have to accept that you have …
In case you are not familiar with the idea of the user manual, it is meant as a tool, firstly to help you get to know yourself and really consider aspects of yourself that you might have taken for granted or haven’t …
It happens more often that you would think. I am having a conversation with someone and we end up talking about polyamory as it is a subject that makes people curious and inquisitive. And we get to a lovely point in the conversation …
