I was lucky to hear of this extremely useful concept during a poly event and it has helped me so much! It is basically a work-in-progress, a list of all the concepts, words and tools that have helped or might help you …
Blog – Musings
If there is one thing that I fiercely preach, it is this: leniency. To yourself and to others. It’s not easy and I have to remind myself of it often, because I do forget it. We often know where we need to …
A lot of the help that I found in dealing with difficult aspects of poly, was in resources about non-monogamy. I heard the stories of all of these people who were happy and fulfilled in their multiple relationships and I wanted to …
Something I have though a lot about, especially after coming out of my own “dark ages” of poly was that the best thing I got out of poly was a better me. Even if I decide, tomorrow, that I don’t want any …
I sincerely think that in order to thrive in polyamory, we must first take a good, hard look at the culture we were raised in and the fantasy world that made us who we are today. Ideas like finding “the one” and …
To my many foreign friends: My country is a beautiful place. It has breath-taking mountains and the sea and people who are friendly and concert-goers who make artists delight in their overt joy. My country is also bigoted and ignorant. It is …
I have been on a short break from writing in my gratitude journal as I have been focusing on a new section of my blog that I hope will help quite a few people 😀 But I do not want to allow …
This post is meant to celebrate the improvements we see in ourselves. It may be hard sometimes to find what works best for you, but when you manage to, you should celebrate that victory. First of all, let me start by saying …
This post is to celebrate working on yourself and feeling no shame about the work that you do! I grew up in a culture where therapy was called “going to the shrink” and it was what crazy people did. Crazy people being …
This post celebrates being special and making yourself special to other people. It is about appreciation and working at your connections. For the longest time I have kept thinking about this, especially in the context of polyamory. What makes us special to …
