Blog – Musings

Breaking up while still in NRE

Written by: Kitty Rea
March 30, 2021

It happens in any type of relationship, whether it’s monogamous or non monogamous. And the type of relationship you’re in doesn’t make it any easier on you. Breaking up with someone while you are still in the “honeymoon” of the relationship can …

On Vanity in the Pandemic

Written by: Kitty Rea
May 8, 2020

The Internet is filling up with jokes about women and their desperate need for nail salons and hairdressers. Some of them had me laughing in tears. We had videos of Italian mayors screaming at their constituents that they should not be calling …

Pregnancy and Bondage

Written by: Kitty Rea
September 10, 2019

!Disclaimer! I am not a medical professional. This is info that I have gathered, as a model, from several medical professionals who I have consulted during my own pregnancy. The best thing you can do is talk to your own doctor about …

Abuse, Abusers and Victims

Written by: Kitty Rea
February 12, 2019

These are just random thoughts I have been gathering in my head, that I am trying to make sense of. Having been part of two separate communities that seem more and more rocked by scandal and accusations of abuse and consent violations, …